Буддизм и мастурбация

и кстати, если уж заниматься этим, то хотя бы с пользой.

смысл обетов мирянина

Велком - тема открыта. Только держитесь, по возможности, ближе к академическому обсуждению. А не как школьники.

“To be fully aware that a woman is committed to another man and yet to have sexual contact with her with a vicious mind is called the root of adultery. To send someone [for her], to go to her personally, to send mail to her, to touch her, or to make sexual remarks, these are all the means [of committing adultery]. If after consummating the act one gives her jewelry, shamelessly and unregretfully enjoys meals with her, praises oneself, or becomes very arrogant, this is the completion [of adultery].

sexual misconduct with one’s parent or a bhiksunl,

“If at an improper time or place one has sexual contact with women other [than one’s wife], one commits the offense of sexual misconduct. This offense exists only in the three continents but not in the Uttarakuru continent. If a monk has sexual intercourse with an animal, another monk, a prisoner, a fugitive, or his teacher’s wife, he commits the offense of sexual misconduct. For the monk who is not related [to any Sangha], by whom is he convicted? It is by the ruler of the country to which he is connected that he is convicted. If at a time of difficulty, war, tyranny, or fear, one has one’s wife renounce the home life and later maintains a sexual relationship with her, one commits the offense of sexual misconduct. If the contact involves the three organs, the offense of sexual misconduct is committed. If on the roadside or at a place beside a stupa, temple, or a place where people gather, one engages in impure conduct either by oneself or with another, one commits the offense of sexual misconduct. Whether one is protected by one’s parents, one’s brothers, or a king, whether one has set a date, whether one promises, or whether one is paid or invited, if one engages in impure conduct beside statues or dead bodies, one commits the offense of sexual misconduct. If one [has sexual intercourse with one’s wife but] thinks her another, or thinks another’s wife is one’s own, one commits the offense of sexual misconduct. There are light and heavy offenses of sexual misconduct. That which is associated with serious afflictions is a
heavy offense, whereas that which is associated with trivial afflictions is a light offense.

Сангхадисеса

1. Суккависсаттхи-сиккхапада — обет отказа от намеренного испускания семени.

Распутство. Неподходящие для совокупления люди: Ты сам

1. Намеренное испускание семени, за исключением времени сна, требует начального и последующего собрания сангхи.

Намеренное ночью как-бы сходит ...  с рук.

Надо понимать, что ненамеренное вообще не является предметом запрета. А для намеренного добавлено исключение.